The short answer
Yes: after losing your spouse, you can use Christian Love Story, a free Christian dating site. Your profile states your situation, "widowed", and you move forward at your own pace, with no pressure at all.
Your story has its place
Losing a spouse is not a page you simply turn. Your profile states your situation, and it appears as a shared point with people who have been through the same loss: they understand without everything having to be explained.
No pressure
Write when you feel ready, to the people you choose. The site's charter forbids pressure, and you can pause your profile at any time: it disappears from the site, nothing is deleted, and you come back whenever you want.
Signing up takes a few minutes
All you need is a photo that shows your face, a few honest lines about your faith and what you are looking for, your denomination and your situation. Every photo is checked before it is shown, and a person decides in case of doubt. Creating a profile, browsing members, writing and replying cost nothing, with no subscription and no card to enter.
Moving forward with confidence
Take time to talk on the site before you meet. For a first meeting, choose a public place in daytime and tell someone close to you. A sincere person will never ask you for money. Any member can report a profile, and a charter forbids pressure and inappropriate language.
FAQ
Is there a Christian dating site for widows and widowers?
Christian Love Story welcomes all Christian singles, including widows and widowers. Your situation is stated in your profile, and the site is 100% free.
What if I'm not quite ready yet?
You can create your profile and move slowly, or pause your profile at any time. Nothing is deleted, and you come back with one click.
Can I meet someone who has been through the same thing?
Yes. When another person is also widowed, the site highlights it as a shared point on their profile.
Is it paid for men?
No. On Christian Love Story, men and women have the same rights and the same price: zero. Creating a profile, reading profiles, writing and replying are free for everyone.
How do I stay safe?
Talk on the site before meeting, meet in a public place and tell someone close to you. Never send money, and report any suspicious profile.